Notice when people are drawn to you.

Jul 1st, 20111 Comment

You are attracting people to yourself all the time. Attraction is the most powerful way to find the relationships and team you need to create the things you want for yourself. Not necessarily physical attraction- although that could be involved. I am talking about someone being drawn to you energetically. Drawn to your personality. Drawn to the way you walk though life. Drawn to the way you say something.

These are the people that you are attracting to yourself. You may have had a thought or prayer or dream to have something in your life. You are now attracting people to help you accomplish that. And you will help them accomplish what they are after. It may even be a shared dream.

Whether you are searching for  an employee, customer, friend, teammate, business partner or someone to create a relationship with- it all works the same. The most effective way to meet them is to notice who are drawing to yourself.

But you have to pay attention. They may appear when we are looking to do something else. You may be late or harried. You may be frustrated or in a bad mood. They may not look like we thought they would. They may not be the person that we thought we were supposed to meet across the room.

But they are taking interest in you. They may have gave you a double take. They may be asking you questions. They may be acting shy or self-conscious around you. They may be hovering at the edge of your conversation.

Notice them. Take time to say hi. Explore what the connection is about. You just never know who is trying to meet you.

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Michael Hoffman’s passion is guiding people to connect with their natural gifts. He believes that we all have innate gifts that hugely benefit others and the world when we offer them. The purest example of these gifts is the Native American concept of medicine or the gift you offer your people. Michael defines your medicine or gift as the natural effect you have on other people when your heart is open. Unfortunately, the demands of our current culture to comply and fit in often distract people away from their inherent gifts and the natural expression of their being. Michael believes many of us have forgotten our dreams and what we are about. This sadly results in a loss of purpose, passion, and vitality. As an innate gift specialist, Michael offers retreats, classes, and individual sessions to allow people to reclaim their natural gifts. These venues allow people to identify, awaken, and offer their gifts. This experiential work incorporates Zen thought, Native American ceremony, rites-of-passage, and releasing limiting belief systems. Michael also maintains his meta blog to provide knowledge, skills, and awareness for unfolding your natural gifts. He is currently compiling this knowledge and research into a college class and book. Michael earned his Bachelor of Science in Psychology in 1987 and Master of Social Work in 1996. He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. In addition to his formal education, Michael studied and apprenticed with a Zen Master and spiritual teacher for 22 years to learn how to guide people to understand themselves. He has worked with people professionally since 1986 as a psychotherapist and teacher. Michael currently resides in Oceanside, California.

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One Response to “Notice when people are drawn to you.”

  1. Eve Hogard says:
    July 1, 2011 at 11:41 am

    this aligns with a piece i wrote last night :) i’m posting shortly on dancinghawk.blogspot … thx for the write, Michael!

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