Ever consider that the experiences presenting themselves to you are not random or by accident? That you have drawn those experiences to you in order to learn something? Paying attention to the things emerging in your life can help you learn the lessons you need to have the life that you want.

Sometimes these things form patterns or cycles. It could be, for instance, that you are meeting pushy people that keep telling you what to do. It may be that part of you decided it is time to break this pattern. So you keep bumping into pushy people until you get frustrated (and strong) enough to tell them to stop telling them what to do. Once you do this it breaks the entire karmic cycle which allows you to be free of the destructive pattern.

Same could happen with dating unavailable people. We are trying to love people who are not emotionally available until… we become aware of the pattern and find the determination to shift our focus.

We rarely view such frustrating experiences presenting themselves over and over again as an opportunity. But perhaps you intended or prayed for a fulfilling relationship. But you have a karmic pattern of relating to unavailable people. This pattern prevents you from seeing the available people that are all around you. So life, God, or your inner consciousness presents experiences to you to help you to learn lessons and complete your karmic cycle. This allows you to free yourself from the pattern and open yourself to a fulfilling relationship. This happens with all kinds of issues.

So welcome your karmic patterns. Don’t push them away or avoid them. They are presenting themselves to you so can complete them and open yourself up to the things you want in life. They are trying to set you free.